Over the past half century, the proportion of individuals who marry a partner from a different religious tradition (including ones with no religious upbringing) has risen steadily, from just over 40 percent in the 1960s to 55 percent by the early 2000s. Like interracial marriage, marriage across religious boundaries may be seen as a reflecting a growing tolerance of diversity and a loosening of social boundaries.
Often the marriage of two such individuals acts as a catalyst for religious change. One partner (usually the husband, in heterosexual unions) switches to match the spouse’s religion. Alternatively, both spouses may convert to a new religion or disaffiliate altogether.
But there has been an especially dramatic increase in the proportion of couples where both partners maintain their own separate religious beliefs and practices. The proportion of marriages that remain interfaith has almost doubled, from a little more than 20 percent in the 1960s to around 40 percent by the first decade of this century. This suggests that traditional norms regarding religious homogamy—like marrying like—have been weakening and that acceptance of differing beliefs, even in the most intimate unions, has been growing.
Although religious intermarriage has become more common among all religious groups, it remains relatively rare among Mormons (about 10 percent currently interfaith) and those groups that share a common racial/ethnic background, such as Hispanic Catholics and Black Protestants (10-15 percent currently interfaith), as well as among Asian-American Hindus (6 percent). Substantial numbers of adults in many religious communities still believe it is important for their own children to marry within their religious tradition (e.g. 55-60 percent of Evangelical Protestant, Mormon, and Jewish parents), but young adults across America are increasingly likely to approve of religious intermarriage and to reject the idea that shared religious beliefs are essential to a successful marriage. In 2008, 80 percent of young adults aged 18 to 23 approved of religious intermarriage, compared to just 60 percent of those that age in the 1960s.
Family Diversity and Interfaith Couples
Interestingly, these trends are especially pronounced among non-traditional couples. Figure 1 compares contemporary rates of interfaith coupling by current and raised religious affiliation among different-sex married couples, different-sex cohabitors, male same-sex couples (including those that are married, cohabiting, or in a domestic partnership or civil union), and female same-sex couples. Forming a partnership with someone raised in a different religion is fairly common in all these groups. Among all couple types, somewhere between 50 and 60 percent are matches in which partners had different religious upbringings. But there are substantial differences in the percentages of various couple types where partners continue to hold on to distinct religious affiliations after getting together. Only 40 percent of married heterosexual couples maintain separate religious affiliations, compared to 49 percent of female same-sex couples, 55 percent of different-sex cohabitors, and a whopping 74 percent of male same-sex couples.
This difference may partly reflect the shorter duration of many non-marital cohabiting relationships in the United States; we would expect all couples to become more similar in their religious beliefs and affiliations the longer they are together. In addition, same-sex couples tend to face tighter dating markets and, as a result, are marked by greater social diversity in general. But it also suggests that these family forms—especially male same-sex couples—may be more accepting of religious differences between partners, allowing for greater religious diversity and change within romantic relationships.
Whatever the explanation for these differences, the overall trends highlight the potential for family relationships to foster greater religious tolerance as more Americans share intimate, familial contact with people who have different beliefs and practices than themselves.
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